Self Defense Tools for Women | Non-Lethal Self Defense Options
There's an unfortunate reality about the world we live in, and as much as we would like to live with our heads in the clouds, the real world is unsafe and there are bad people that want to threaten our safety.
We are always hearing about different kinds of terrorist attacks happening all over the world; some hitting closer to home than we like. Those threats are on a larger scale and something to be addressed for another post. However, let's talk about something on the smaller side such as threats and violence against our personal safety. We might think that when in the comfort of our own home with the doors locked that we are safe or that nothing could happen on our daily walk to coffee, to/from your car, or something that we do every day routinely in daylight. However, dangerous situations can arise at any time, even in a place you thought was safe.
Robberies, muggings, sexual assaults, kidnappings, or murders happen in every city and town. Are you prepared to defend yourself against them? Has the thought of your personal safety ever crossed your mind? Have you ever thought about what you will do if you found yourself in a threatening situation? These might be tough questions to answer, but the reality is that being prepared with a personal defense strategy will only help you should your safety be threatened.
While my personal safety journey led me to owning and carrying a firearm as one of the means of being self-reliant, it doesn't mean you have to follow the same path. Owning a firearm is a personal decision that comes with responsibilities that not everyone is comfortable with. However, just because your personal preference does not include owning a firearm that doesn't mean you have to be left defenseless. There are many non-lethal options that will give you a chance to get away from a potential attacker.
I've rounded up a variety of self-defense tools, less-lethal weapons, and personal protection devices that can come in handy should you find yourself in an unfavorable situation. Keep in mind that just by having one of these items on your person isn't going to be effective if you aren't training on how to use it properly to defend yourself. There are many YouTube videos that can guide you in using these items for self-defense; alternatively, some cities have classes that offer in-person training for these items. When deciding on a non-lethal tool to use, ensure that it's legal in your state/city, is something that you are going to be comfortable using, and that you are taking the proper training on how to use that tool effectively.
Pepper Spray
One of the most common tools for self-defense is pepper spray. Pepper spray is a chemical inflammatory agent that irritates the nasal passages and eyes of the assailant causing difficulty breathing, burning pain, and temporary blindness for a short period of time. There are many different pepper spray formulas such a stream, fogger, foam, or gel. If you are concerned with any type of blowback from the wind, then opt for a gel formula. Not only are there different formulas, the “recipe” of inflammatory agent also differs a bit depending on the brand so be sure to check the brands website to get specific details.
Some pepper sprays have a UV marking dye that looks invisible but when under a special UV light can be seen. This can be helpful when identifying an attacker. Pepper spray is a great portable option that comes in a variety of styles and holster options. You can find pepper spray disguised as a lipstick, a pen. You can also buy key chain holsters or handsleeves to use while running or walking outside. It's a simple non-lethal option that can be used against an attacker, stray dog, or even a drunk guy at a bar.
Many pepper spray options listed here also have a corresponding practice spray you can use. These sprays are usually water-based but still allow you to train and learn how to deploy the tool if you should need it.
TigerLight D.A.D. 2: The Defense Alert Device (DAD) is a pepper spray, multi-mode flashlight, striking tool, and an alert/GPS device all-in-one. It was designed to be carried in your hand with simple controls to be used under stress—one button for the pepper spray/GPS, and another button for the flashlight. One of the key features is that the D.A.D. 2 does not look like a weapon. With the hand strap, the D.A.D. 2 looks like it could be something as simple as a water bottle when out on a run and the strap keeps the device where you need it to be in your hand. A simple push of a button activates the GPS alert through the D.A.D mobile app so a distress alert is sent out to your contacts, as well as anyone else nearby with the app, that you need help. This is a durable, lightweight, and discreet option. The D.A.D. 2 also comes in a non-pepper spray model.
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PepperBall: PepperBall makes variety of non-lethal self-defense tools that use CO2 cartridges to shoot pepper irritant powder projectiles. Basically, tiny pepper balls that burst on impact and release a 12-foot cloud of their pepper irritant. The MOBILE, fits nicely in your hand, has a 350-lumen flashlight, a red laser for aiming, and is lightweight. While it looks big, it doesn’t look like anything other than a flashlight when you’re carrying it in your hand. It doesn’t look like a self-defense tool at all. It has a range of up to 50 ft which means you can create distance which provides you time to get away.
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Shop for Pepper Spray Tools Listed:
Kimber Pepper Blaster | POM Pepper Spray | Sabre Lipstick Pepper Spray | TigerLight Defense Alert Device 2 | PepperBall MOBILE | PepperBall COMPACT
TASERS & STUN GUNS
These two items can often get mixed up for the being the same, but they are not. Stun Guns require direct and up-close contact with the threat to work. Whereas the TASER, which is also the brand can be fired from a distance.
TASER
A TASER is like a stun gun in that it delivers a type of shock. However, the TASER brand delivers 50,000 volts which causes an attacker's muscles to lock-up, which temporarily immobilizes them. Additionally, the TASER can be shot from a distance (up to 15 ft) so you don't need to be in close range. The TASER shoots out two electrodes that can penetrate clothing and skin. Once in contact with the attacker it delivers an electric shock to the muscular system to immobilize them. TASER has two options which include the Bolt 2 a handheld option that has a built emergency alert and their TASER Pulse. You can find holsters for the TASER Pulse so you can carry it concealed. You can read more about my thoughts on the TASER Pulse here.
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Stun Gun
A stun gun is a non-lethal device that delivers a high-voltage electric shock to an attacker. They are designed to transfer high-voltage shock into the nervous system causing disorientation, loss of balance, and possibly difficulty moving. Stun guns require direct contact with a person so the electrodes can deliver the shock which means an attacker will need to be within arm’s reach. Besides the standard looking stun gun, they also come in disguisable forms such as a faux cell phone, flashlight, and even a cell phone case that fits over your real cell phone.
Shop for TASER & Stun Guns Listed:
TASER Bolt 2 | TASER Pulse | VIPERTEK Heavy Duty Stun Gun | Faux Car Remote Stun Gun | TASER StrikeLight | JOLT Stun Gun Flashlight | Faux Cell Phone Stun Gun
STRIKING & STABBING TOOLS
Striking and stabbing tools are options that someone should consider having in their self-defense toolkit with an understanding that these tools require up close, direct contact with a threat. And these tools require their own set of training & skillset to be used properly and efficiently especially when it comes to knives and blades.
Tactical Flashlight: If you think that a flashlight can't help you in a threatening situation then you don't have a tactical flashlight. Tactical flashlights have brighter and stronger beams of light (lumens) and come with a jagged/spiked bezel around the lens and heel. Not only will the tactical flashlight brighten up dark alleys or areas, but the bezel can also be used to strike an attacker while the bright beam of light works great to temporarily blind them.
Knives, Tactical Pens, and Keychain/Handheld Tools: While some of these sharp objects can be lethal if used properly, they are an alternative to a firearm, and a self-defense option that should be considered. I have a few in my arsenal (tactical pen/multi-tool, tactical key, and kubotans which are handheld or knuckle style striking tools) that I like to carry around with me. However, since these items are all smaller fist-held tools they require close proximity and skill to be effective. The benefit of the handheld tools is that they they are held in your palm, inside your fist, similar to the flashlight so they help to reinforce your fist so you have a stronger base to strike with. Having some training and understanding how to use these tools for personal defense are key to ensuring your safety. This is especially true when it comes to knives and blades. These take a very specific skillset and training to learn how to properly deploy and use one on an attacker. The good thing is there are places nowadays that offer hand-tool fighting classes like knife-fighting classes.
Shop for Striking & Stabbing Tools Listed:
Tactical Flashlight: SureFire Defender Flashlight with Strike Bezel Keychain/Handheld Options: Munio Handheld | Paracord Monkey Fist | Kubotan Key Chain Striker | CRKT Tactical Defense Key Tactical Pens & Multi-Tools: Tuff Writer Tactical Pen | SOG Baton Q1 Knives & Blades: Dynamis Alliance Blade & Sheath | SOG Snarl Knife
PERSONAL ALARMS & Wearables
Some of the simplest tools can be a huge life saver and with personal alarms coming in all shapes and sizes and more stylish safety wearable brands creating products, taking responsibility for your own safety doesn’t have to be hard.
Personal Alarms & GPS Devices: While personal alarm devices won't do anything to incapacitate an attacker, their main benefit is that they emit a loud alarm that draws attention to you. Something an attacker does not want. Additionally, today there are many companies making personal alarms that offer additional safety features such as sending your GPS location to a set of contacts, alerting authorities, or ones that are combined multi-tools. The alarm-sounding devices emit a loud ear-piercing alarm (up to 140db+ depending on the brand) that help to draw attention to yourself and any possible situation. These devices come in the form of cell phone apps, specific hand-held button tools, and some even disguised as lipstick. What’s great about these devices are they are discreet and unsuspecting so you can keep them looped to your keychain, bag, beltloop, or zipper of a jacket.
Wearables: The old “I’ve fallen and I can’t get up” device may have paved the way for these types of safety devices but they surely don’t look anything like something you might find on an elderly person. And at SMT, we are thankful for that. Wearables are devices that with built-in technology that when activated (usually by a press of a button) can alert the authorities or a designated contact of a threat. They come in a variety of options from differently styles of jewelry to scrunchies and even the latest Smartwatches have emergency and safety features options that can be activated.
Shop for Personal Alarms & Wearables Listed:
Personal Alarms: She’s Birdie Plus & Original Alarm | Bling Sting Heart | Sabre Alarm | Stinger Alarm & Emergency Tool | Byrna Banshee Personal Safety Alarm | Silent Beacon Alarm
Jewelry/Wearables: InvisaWear Bracelet | Get Flare Cuff | Scrunchie | Athletic Band | Garmin Watch | Apple iWatch | Necklace
Physical Defense: A final non-lethal self-defense tool to consider are physical self-defense classes. While all these tools are great options for buying you some time to flee from your attacker, one area that is often overlooked is your personal fitness. While you don't need to be winning gold in the sprint, being physically fit will help you when it comes time to defend yourself. There are many self-defense classes for women that teach you how to defend yourself using your own body. While you don't have to take a specific self-defense class, adding a new physical fitness skill to your routine such as boxing, Muay Thai, or Krav Maga are all great options that teach some form of fighting techniques that you can draw upon should you need.
While everyday objects like a screwdriver, baseball bat, pen, and even your keys are decent tools to improvise with, having a dedicated tool built for the purpose of self-defense is a much better option. The key to these non-lethal tools being used against an attacker is about buying you time to escape, debilitating the assailant, or stopping/dissuading the attacker from continuing with the assault.
Taking proactive measures to ensure you are prepared for potentially dangerous situations will give you a leg up against personal threats to your safety. When determining what your personal defense plan will be keep these tips in mind:
Be Aware: A good personal defense plan starts with situational awareness. It's important to be aware so that you can avoid and prevent a situation from happening. Ensure you are paying attention to your surroundings, how people are behaving, and determine if things seem out of place. By being aware of your surroundings, you'll hopefully be able to prevent an attack from happening.
Know Your Tool/Device: Owning the tool is a step in the right direction but without the proper training and skill to effectively use the tool in a self-defense situation makes it ineffective. As mentioned, there are plenty of videos on YouTube that demonstrate different techniques for properly using many of these tools. Check them out and practice with your spouse or a friend. Just remember to use a prop in place of the real tool.
Easily Accessible: If the tool you choose isn't easily accessible then it's basically useless. Find places on your body, in your hand, or in your pockets, where you can carry the tool so you can easily get to it should you need to. Depending on where you decide to carry it, you should also practice drawing your tool from that location.
No one can predict when an attack will happen. Being smart and selecting self-defense tools that match your comfort level will help you to ease into a lifestyle of being self-reliant. If you decide to own one or several of these tools then make sure you have learned to properly use it to defend yourself. Don't let any of these tools give you a false sense of security. Don't let your guard down; always be aware, but know that you have taken the responsibility, developed the skills and the mindset to defend yourself should you unfortunately end up in a threatening situation.
Before you decide to purchase any of these tools, you check what your local and state laws are regarding whether you are legally allowed to own and/or carry any of these. Many states have restrictions on size, type, and whether the item needs to be registered. The information provided here is based on my opinions and for informational use only. Any items/services/products/advice mentioned in these posts should be used at your own discretion and in accordance with the manufacturer’s instructions and your local/state laws. You can read more about my privacy & disclosure policies here.